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You should never, ever do something you vehemently don't want to do just because your partner wants to, and if you're not ready for full-on anal sex, tell them. Ugh, sorry), if you want to experiment in that general area, here are some things to know about Base Camp 1, which consists of the stepping stones to anal sex: Fingers (anal fingering) and tongue (rimming, salad tossing, analingus). Imagine it like a basketball hoop, and the ball should just be rolling around the rim of the basket, not actually making the basket. "So much of sex is fast — especially in porn — but anal play has to be prepped," says Morse. It's true it might be a little harder to get some solid eye-contact going on when face-to-anus things are happening. There are a variety of positions to try, like lying on your back with your hips elevated, or sitting on his face in reverse cowgirl. Kat Van Kirk says, the anus and the lower part of the rectum actually have very little fecal material in them, which means it tends to not be nearly as dirty as you think. "Using an anal douche is not harmful if only done once in awhile and might help you relax your concerns about your bowels," advises Dr. You can use something as simple as warm water for a quick cleanse too. It feels best when there's some additional stimulation going on.